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Lynette Poulter June 15, 1941 - February 3, 2021

Lynette Butters Poulter
June 15, 1941 – February 3, 2021

Lynette and the 7 L’s

Lynette Poulter – Eternal sweetheart, cherished mother, grandmother, and friend, lived true to her motto to

LIVE
LAUGH
LOVE and
LEAVE a
LEGACY

She and Lynn were reminded daily of this motto as their license plate displayed 7 L’s: One L for each of these words and two more for
LYNN & LYNETTE

In honor of Lynette’s life and legacy, our family will gather on Friday, February 5th at 1:00 pm to share our gratitude, tributes and testimonies. We invite those who would like to join us via Youtube, to connect through the following link:

https://youtu.be/xsu6zvJdeOU

LIVE
Lynette Butters Poulter was born on June 15th, 1941 in Rock Springs, Wyoming to Newell Grant and Eulala Marguerite Heiner Butters. They moved to Morgan, Utah for a time and eventually settled in Bountiful, Utah. There she was raised by adoring parents in a home full of love. Their family eventually included eight children: Darlene, Grant Michael, Sherilyn, Lynette, Steve, Diane, Bailey and Brad.

During Lynette’s Freshmen year of college, she met the love of her life Lynn Poulter who won her hand in spite of her many diligent suitors. They were married in the Salt Lake Temple on Sept 12, 1961 and celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary this year. Lynette was, and will always be, the center of Lynn’s universe. Their children grew up secure in the knowledge that their mom was loved by their dad, and the worst thing they could ever do in life was to treat their mom badly.

Lynette was a steadfast supporter of Lynn as they raised their family together. She put her creativity to work in their home, with people often stopping by to see how they had transformed their tiny little Provo home into such a creative space and then on to the beautiful spaces that have sheltered their family and friends for the past 45 years in Woodland Hills.

Lynette cared for Lynn and their children, doing whatever was needed to help subsidize their income while staying at home when the children were young. This included creative ventures such as dough dolls, corn husk dolls, wedding cake toppers and a business called Country Girls. She also loved to read, do crosswords, play cards and games, go on road trips and plan epic parties.

It wasn’t just family who recognized Lynette as an exemplary person, but all who knew her and worked with her. After they moved to Woodland Hills and the children were all in school, Lynette went back to work to help support the family. Those she worked with recognized that she was more than a pretty face at the front desk, and she would be quickly promoted due to her management and organizational skills. She left an impact on people with her quiet but consistent integrity, fierce loyalty and cool composure in tense situations. Her titles included Desk Manager – Mr. Mac, Acting Vice President – Jefferson Institute, Seminar Operations Director – Covey and later Franklin-Covey and Owner/Operator – Hagen House.

While working and raising a family, Lynette and Lynn had many adventures which took them all over the world: Russia, Finland, Spain, France, Italy and Hong Kong. She and Lynn also served a mission to Jinan, China where they taught English at Jinan University.

LAUGH

Lynette had a quick wit and contagious smile. She was not one to take the center stage, but would often have a salty comeback from the sidelines. This remained true even up through her last week of life. She would seem to be distant, and then make a witty remark that let the family know she had been following the conversation the whole time.

LOVE

Lynette was a living example of loving as the Savior loved. She met people where they were, and gave them the freedom to come along as they were ready. All of the kids felt that not only did they have a movie star for a mom, but she would also always have their back.

She stood by her children through tough school experiences, hard life lessons, and difficult choices. She gave advice only when it was sought out, and always made them feel like they could accomplish anything. During one especially difficult time, she was remembered as saying “My job is not to judge you, my job is just to love you.” She lived true to those words.

LEAVE A LEGACY

People we meet who have known Lynette over the years talk with radiant enthusiasm about their love for her and how she made an impact on their life. She was witty, charming, well-mannered, fun, balanced, could keep any secret, and showed unconditional love for her children.

She was a presence in any room, the center of her family, and yet she never drew attention to herself. She was not preoccupied with fads and appearance, but humble, gracious and elegant. She had a quiet confidence that spoke of knowing who she was and her purpose in life.

Lynette’s greatest gift was given through her vision of her roles as wife, mother, grandmother and family member. She is survived by her husband Lynn, her children Krystin Morley (Mike), Zac Poulter (Becky), Jennifer Fulton (Brent), Gunnar Poulter (Tori), Paisley Callister (Craig), Levi Poulter (Leigh Bates), twenty six grandchildren and thirty seven great grandchildren.

She spent her life serving and supporting her family and those she brought into her family circle. In her later years, although she was plagued with the trials of dementia, she continued to be an example of loving what matters most – her family, friends and Father in Heaven.

On the morning of her passing, Lynn looked at all of his children gathered around them at her bedside and said, “Mom’s greatest tribute — is you.”

Thank you for loving her.

We also want to give a special thanks to Bristol Hospice and Senior Partners Utah for their diligent and tender care.

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    Heidi Colwell says

    What a beautiful tribute to my beautiful aunt. Sending love to all of you at this sad time! I know she is having the best reunion with her sister, mom and dad! ????

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    McKay Brown says

    Oh, how we love Lynette and the Poulter family. Our hearts ache for you, Lynn and all your family. The separation from our loved ones is always painful. We are sorry for that.

    Our family is grateful for your kindnesses to us and your examples of love and devotion. You have impacted us for the better!

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    Janece Hughes says

    I was so sad to hear of Lynette’s passing. I always admired her as a young girl in the same ward. I thought she was so kind and when she said something we all listened. She raised a wonderful family. You will have the most loving guardian angel now. She was beautiful inside and out. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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    Debbie Bracken says

    Lynette was the greatest primary teacher I ever had. I carry memories of her love and thoughtfulness close to my heart. She had a gift for making even a small eleven-year- old girl feel important and special. The way she lived her life will always be an example of how to be a great person, wife, mentor, and friend.

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    Michael and Janet says

    Dear Lynn and family,
    Janet and I are so heart broken for the loss of your dear Lynette. We mourn with you, and want you to know of our love for you and your sweetheart. Thanks so much for your amazing example of kindness and devotion to your dear companion over these many years – we will miss her and express heart-felt sorrow for her passing. May the Lord bless you during the coming long days and nights to feel His comfort. Love, the Raymonds.

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    Joshua Hill says

    Sending our love and condolences to Lynn and all of the Poulter Family. A sweet, loving mother, grandmother, and Aunt with a great sense of humor will be missed. We will look forward to re-uniting with her energy someday. Love Josh and Drew

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      Marcia Ford says

      I’m so saddened to hear of Lynette’s passing! She was such a dear friend! Always classy, thoughtful and fun!
      The obit was such a beautiful tribute.

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    Sandee & Bert Cherry says

    I’m so touched by the love ❤️ Lynn and Lynette have shown for each other. I can’t imagine one without the other. I have always said I want to be just like Lynette when I grow up. She was such a powerful example to me. Heaven is more beautiful now that she is there. Love you all Poulter Family

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    Stevie Butters says

    What an amazing tribute to an amazing, beautiful aunt of mine. She will indeed leave a legacy. What an amazing family she has created. I remember her “salty” comments and sense of humor. I love all of you Poulters and miss you a lot. Sending prayers of comfort.

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    Stan and Merilee Houghton says

    Dear Lynn and the entire Poulter Family,
    We love you all and we are sorry that sometimes we have to go through the sorrowful loss and departing of our Mothers from us. We love Lynette dearly! She and Lynn have been such wonderful examples and neighbors to us over the years! We are sorry that we are away right now so that we couldn’t give you all a big hug! Please know and remember our love for you!
    Love you, Stan and Merilee

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    Sherry Walser says

    Poulters, we will miss Lynette. She is a lovely woman, friendly to me when I needed it; full of grace and kindness. I’ll miss her smile and humor. I think we are all a little better for knowing her.

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    Sandra Cope says

    I was so happy to attend the funeral service virtually! I have so many fond memories of the Butters & Heiners pool parties, cabin memories, and annual Christmas parties! Lynn and Lynette were a great example of love and humor to me. It was a beautiful service! xoxoxo Sandra Heiner Cope

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    Diane Hill says

    Diane & David
    We loved the sweet stories coming from such a loving family. Certainly a great legacy has been left. I love and miss my sweet sister.
    She was spunky and beautiful!
    Prayers of comfort go out to my sweet brother-in-law who took such loving care of my sister.
    Love to all the family!

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    Sylvia Williams says

    Lynette was such a sweet lady and always had a smile on her face. She will be missed in our ward. May you be comforted at this time by the knowledge of our Heavenly Fathers plan.

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      Glen & Dannette Clayson says

      Wonderful Poulter Family,

      We wanted you to know how sorry we are for the loss you are feeling at this time. We have felt so blessed throughout the years to have been embraced by your wonderful family. From the day Matthew started dating Sydney he felt your love and so have each one of us.

      Lynn, you and Lynette have an amazing legacy! I truly believe that just as she lead by example in your home and throughout this life she has gone to prepare the way for your next adventure.

      Whenever I was in her presence she made me feel welcomed, loved and care for. I felt that in your home as well as your children’s home. They are remarkable people. It is an tremendous tribute to a marvelous mother.

      May the Lord continue to bless you with comfort and Lynette’s loving presence. With Love

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    Audra and Charles Thorpe says

    We are saddened at the loss of a wonderful wife and mother. Your family is her great legacy. Charles got to know her a little bit through parent conferences for Gunnar and Paisley. We know Heavenly Father will comfort you in ways He can.

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    Lorene Crabtree Fullmer says

    I’m so sorry to hear of Lynette’s passing. My heart goes out to all of you, especially Lynn. What a special relationship you two shared. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you at this time. I love you all my dear cousins.

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    Rhett & Melisa Butters says

    We were so saddened to hear of our dear aunt Lynette’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to uncle Lynn and all the Poulter clan. What a wonderful person she was. Some of my fondest memories are of times spent down in Provo with my cousins. We love you all!

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    Georgia Blanchard says

    I just heard yesterday of Lynette’s passing. I felt so sad that I had missed the funeral but I looked online & saw the youtube video today. What a beautiful tribute to my beautiful, sweet, witty friend. It brought back so many fond memories of times we spent together. Seeing & hearing all the children talk about their dear mother was wonderful although a little strange since it’s been so long since I’ve seen them & had still visualized them as being teenagers. But they still have the same awesome personalities that I always loved. They are definitely a great tribute to their parents. My deepest sympathy & love to you, Lynn & your beautiful family. Thank you for the wonderful example you & Lynette were to me. Much love to you all!

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    Steve Clawson says

    Lynn and Family,

    MARION and I have thought of you and Lynette after we visited so many years ago. We certainly have enjoyed the memories and know our Friendship is Eternal. How enjoyable it will be in the not to distant future to have a glorious reunion with all we know and Love. Seems so many years since we met at Boys State 1958. All the Best to
    You and Yours. STEVE. og. MARION. CLAWSON

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    Bill & Sue Swinyard says

    Oh how the world was better with Lynette living in it. Neither Sue nor I will ever forget her openness, smile, warmth, and beauty. She was one in a million and we miss her already.

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    Hal J. Allen says

    We loved Lynn & Lynette for so many years Remember, Lynn, you were my best man at our wedding in 1968. And the Honeymoon trip to Powell with the Kelly’s the night after our BYU graduation…then the trip much more recent, to Cedar City to watch fun plays. Memories too dear to forget. Connie and I pray for your peace and that your grieving will be very complete and short. Our love and prayers dear brother.

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