Spanish Fork, UT – Diane Kirkham Miller passed away December 11, 2020, after several long months of complications due to multiple surgeries. We are grateful she could come home for her final few hours and be surrounded by family and friends, laughter and tears, and all the noise and love that goes along with being the life of the party.
Diane was born May 17, 1947, in Salt Lake City, Utah, to LaPreal Rich Pugmire Kirkham and ElMoine Woodhouse Kirkham. She spent many summers in Bear Lake with her sister, Kate, and her extensive Pugmire branch of the family. It is where she learned her life-time love for the area, and a dislike for raspberries in any form, other than a fresh-raspberry shake from Bear Lake.
She graduated from Salt Lake City’s East High, class of 1965, and studied at Brigham Young University, originally pursuing a music major as a cellist, but graduating in 1969 with a degree in Elementary Education.
She met her sweetheart, Dennis Ray Miller, when they lived next door to each other on Provo’s University Avenue. She always said she caught his attention by stealing his motorcycle and replacing
it with an ironing board. (The motorcycle later took the ironing board’s place in her kitchen.)
They married August 11, 1970, in the Salt Lake City Temple and just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary this summer. Diane and Dennis moved to Spanish Fork in 1974 and have been there ever since. They raised their three kids there and Diane was a ‘second mom’ to countless others that they welcomed in the family circle.
Diane taught school for many years, starting with third grade in Goshen, Utah, third and then first grade at Larsen Elementary in Spanish Fork, and was a reading coach/literary specialist for Nebo District. Her love of reading and teaching was made more memorable through her musical talents. She taught many things by setting them to music and playing the ukulele to accompany them. She loved, mentored, and served the many people she taught with, and they became lifelong friends and a huge part of her life.
She loved her Savior, Jesus Christ, and was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She had many callings in the church; one of her favorites was playing piano for Primary. Diane and Dennis also served in the temple for many years, first at the Provo Temple, and then as temple workers at the Payson Temple. She was constantly serving and helping others and was a true example of sharing the Light Of Christ in the lives of those around her.
She loved caffeine-free Diet Coke with a lime, from Sonic, talking with her sister, playing the cello with the Nebo Philharmonic, game nights, lunches out and road trips to St. George with her friends, trips to visit family, and any reason to celebrate. She was a woman of many talents; and words cannot encapsulate all she meant and all she gave. Her humor, enthusiasm, generosity, and love were a bright light to many.
She is preceded in death by her parents; and her brother, Gary (Nona Parker) Kirkham. She is survived by her husband, Dennis Ray Miller; her children: Alison (Stanton Matthew) Woods, Todd (Jenny Lee) Miller, Kevin (Becky Shiozawa) Miller; 14 grandchildren; and her sister, Kate (Robert) Christmas.
A small funeral service for the family is planned for Wednesday, December 16, 2020 at Noon. It was streamed on Zoom and has been recorded. Please see below:
In lieu of flowers, the family would love to have donations go to the LDS Humanitarian Fund. https://donate.churchofjesuschrist.org/donations/church/humanitarian-services/humanitarian-aid-fund.html?cde2=475-Humanitarian-home&cid=Humanitarian-home-donate-button
Also, there is an online memorial/guestbook site. If anyone has pictures or funny/important memories of Diane that they would like to share, the family would love for those to be posted to their family’s website. https://www.mykeeper.com/profile/dianemiller
Zoom meeting link:
Topic: Diane Kirkham Miller Memorial
Time: Dec 16, 2020 12:00 PM Mountain Time (US and Canada)
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Funeral Service Program
for Diane Kirkham Miller
Wednesday, December 16, 2020 at 12:00 Noon
Conducting: Bishop Ferris Child
Family Prayer: Kevin Ray Miller
Opening Song: Nearer my God to Thee (Hymn #100)
Opening Prayer: Alison Miller Woods
Tribute . . . read by Marcia Nelson
Memories of Grandma: Grandkids
Musical selection—Congregation sing together: Gethsemane (Primary song: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/friend/2018/03/gethsemane?lang=eng)
Poem . . . read by Kate Kirkham Christmas
Remarks: Bishop Child
Testimony: Dennis Ray Miller
Closing Song: Silent Night (Hymn #204)
Closing Prayer: Todd Kirkham Miller
Place of Burial:
Spanish Fork Cemetery
Dedication Of The Grave:
Dennis Ray Miller
Pallbearers:
Dennis Ray Miller
Todd Kirkham Miller
Duncan Miller
Kevin Ray Miller
Ian McKay Miller
Jasper Kai Miller
Stanton Matthew Woods
Stanton Matthew Woods, Jr.
Edward ElMoine Woods
Honorary Pallbearers:
Robert Christmas
Eliza Diane Woods
Kali Miller
Kyra Hana Miller
Josi Lee Miller
Kaitlin Akiko Miller
Marsha Kate Woods
Alexandria Holt Woods
Ashley Kininmonth Woods
Ethan Kenji Miller
Kate Kirkham Christmas
Alison Miller Woods
Jenny Lee Miller
Becky Shiozawa Miller
6 Condolences for Diane Kirkham Miller
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Phyllis Brock says
December 14, 2020 at 7:08 pmMy heart is saddened with the passing of Diane, a sweet colleague and friend. I spent many many years teaching with her at Larsen Elementary. She was truly an awesome teacher with so many talents to share. I send my love and condolences to you, her family, and will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for streaming the funeral on Zoom for us to share in.
Phyllis Brock
Frank Daybell says
December 15, 2020 at 2:42 amDiane had a great influence on me as a teacher. She gave me confidence in myself as a new teacher by visiting my classroom often and letting me know of the difference I was making in students lives. She always took an interest in my life and how I was doing. I send my condolences to the family of this classy lady and great educator.
Kent and Mary Jex says
December 15, 2020 at 4:35 amDear Dennis: Friend, Neighbor, and Servant to ALL!
We cannot express the saddness in our hearts. Diane has been an inspiring educator, musician, wife, mother, friend and spiritual angel. You and Diane have been such a joyful part of our lives for years. We love you dearly and will miss Diane beyond expression. She has always been a shining light! Your loving marriage has been an inspiration and your example of Christ-like love and service is felt by everyone! For many years Diane and I have shared the love of music; I cherish all the memories playing cello and violin with her and for both of your beautiful voices in choirs together. Through our wonderful memories, Diane will always live in our hearts and in our souls until we meet again to create heavenly memories!. We love you deeply, Dennis, and are here for you always.
Forever, Kent and Mary Jex
Laurie Snelson says
December 15, 2020 at 4:02 pmSo sorry for your loss, Diane was such a sweet, kind woman, she always had a smile on her face, and willing to help out anyone. She will be missed, we all have been blessed by knowing Diane and the examples she set for us all to follow. Love and Hugs Laurie Abraham Snelson
Sherrie says
December 16, 2020 at 1:11 amThe day I met Diane and Dennis was life changing for me. They befriended this single independent neighbor without question. You checked on my mother when I cared for her, checked on me. I loved going to lunch with Diane & Marcia, what a hoot it was! Diane has left too soon. Left a big void. Dennis, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
George Gull says
December 16, 2020 at 2:48 amI am sorry to hear about the passing of Diane. She was a wonderful person. She was a wonderful teacher, and I appreciated working with her for so many years. I was honored to teach Todd, Allison, and Kevin and I express my condolence to them and Dennis.
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